A Letter to Tom

Dear Tom,

Of course you have no clue who I am. How could you? Cassie has hid me and many others from you for quite some time. I don't always agree with that and wish she would be upfront and honest with you about who she's talking to online. I'm always afraid that one day she'll just stop posting. Or worse.... that I'll click on her link and her blog will be gone. We'll all know that you know at that point.

Yes. She's been on here talking about spanking. My hope is that if the day comes that you find out the whole truth... granted, she's told you only part of the truth. Yes, she's made friends from all around the country and even across the pond. And yes, I understand that you would not be pleased to know that parts of your most intimate private life have been exposed for all of us to read. I understand that. And I do agree that Cassie has a good sound spanking coming for not being upfront and completely honest with you. But my hope... my hope is that if the day comes that you find her out that you will allow her to bring you here to my site - I know she'll remember if the time comes - to read this letter to you. And I hope that maybe others will follow suit and write one too and then if she ever needs a flood of letters, they will be there for her.... for you to see what she means to all of us. I want mine posted here before it's too late and I really hope to see "Letters to Tom" popping up here and there.

I thank you for reading. Now I'll tell you what I really want to say.

You've got every right to be angry. Cassie has hidden something very important from you. And we all know that she has a trip over your knee coming for sure. And I have no right whatsoever to suggest how you run your house and your relationship with Cassie but I just ask that you listen for just a minute to what she means to me.

I thought there was something wrong with me. What woman in her right mind would agree to allowing her husband to spank her?? And not only agree to it, but WANT it, crave it, need it? I thought I was all alone. Then I found Cassie and all the rest. And I knew I wasn't alone. I knew that I was OKAY!!!! That has been totally freeing for me. I've quit trying to ignore who I really am because I know there are so many other NORMAL women just like me out there. And we need each other.

We can't have these relationships in our "real world" because we have no idea who is safe to talk to about these things. We only have THIS world where we can be known and talk but remain anonymous at the same time.

Yes, she's told us details about your spanking life. We've laughed with her. We've told her "you had that coming to you." And she's done the same. She once told me that the day would come where I would not be able to stop the tears during a spanking.. and to just release them and be thankful for my husband when that spanking comes. That was a woman speaking from experience ... and her experience means so very much to me. I'm still waiting for that day. It will come and I'll know it's okay to cry when it does because Cassie has encouraged me by her words and examples to be the right kind of wife.

Oh sure, if she were forced to quit hanging out online with us, we'd carry on. Our spankings would continue but it all would be lacking. Sometimes we women need each other to say "It's okay. You're not alone. You aren't the only one." If I didn't have these women to laugh with.... talk with.... share with.... my life would not be what it is right now. And what is it? My marriage is flying high because of spanking. We all know what it does for us.... but I need others to say "it's OKAY!!!"

Obviously you're reading this now because you found her out. I just want to ask you to take some time and read our blogs a bit before you make her quit talking with us. Read the comments too. She'll show you which ones to read. If after you've read them and you still feel she must stop talking with us, then she must stop but I hope ... I desperately hope that you will see how much of a teacher, friend, mentor she is to all of us.

I have talked in circles. For that I apologize. I just want this to be on my blog .... just in case.....

Cassie's friend,

Eva

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Posted with Cassie's blessing....

And here's a letter from Elis